朋友的意义

前一陣子為了幫朋友慶祝比天還大的21歲生日，大夥一起籌錢買份禮物，

這份應該是我送過其中一份最貴的禮物（就連好姐妹都沒收過，那位朋友還真有福啊）,

原以為大家會很開心地答應一起分擔，怎知有些人竟然投訴太貴，

還說 “我跟她又不熟，買個蛋糕一人分幾塊錢不就夠了”，

說這話的還要是男生，

我最討厭計較又吝嗇的男生（這些人怪不得“永遠孤單”），

我當下無言，雖然很生氣但也不想再糾纏下去，

結果剩下的，就只有幾個要好的朋友分擔。

這件事讓我看清，

原來不是每個人都可以當朋友來看待，

有些人，認識久了，過度信賴，

以為關係打好了，反而發現，

這些人真的只能做普通朋友，很普通很普通的普通朋友，

在街上見面也希望大家別認出對方然後擦身而過；

有個朋友告訴我，世界很現實，

過了中學那種很單純的生活後，

她把朋友，同學和同事分得很清楚；

我開始認同，每個人在每個人的心裡都有一個崗位，

我以朋友的身份認識你，你就是我朋友，

我以同學的身份認識你，你也就只是我的同學，

過了界限，只會讓自己再度受傷，

我不想一次又一次地經歷同樣的事情，

是時候好好分清楚了。

更新

哇已經2012年了我的部落格在一年後終於再次更新了呵呵，每天想著要寫點什麼但就是沒行動過，還真是懶人一個 =.="


這幾天都在整理房間，把舊的東西清掉時，總在回想起以前做過的事去過的地方見過的人，但總是零零落落想不起來，記憶體大部分都是空的，現在上來看看以前寫過的，突然很慶幸我都有記錄下來，雖然有些事我很訝異怎麼一點都沒印象，但至少我的記憶不至於流失，當下有傻笑了幾秒鐘。。。


好啦今年應該勤勞點每個月至少寫個兩句吧，希望我做得到。。。


有幾樣事和想法想記錄下來：


首先，很高興我終於達成一個物質上的願望，買了ipad 2, 每天很幸福地沉迷於遊戲中，感謝老天；


第二，每新的一年的第一天我總是生病，今年也不例外，從考試開始的感冒一直持續陪伴左右，沒好起來還越來越嚴重，所以願望還是希望魔咒破除，不要再病，我要健康地倒數2013年；


第三，家裡發現了白蟻踪跡，希望能儘早剷除掉它們的窩，不然希望爸爸升職加薪後換掉房子，我不要爛掉的家；


第四，20出頭記憶力已經開始衰退，吃東西越來越慢，代謝越來越差，脾氣越來越暴躁，聽覺越來越弱，最重要的是皮膚越來越皺，是時候做做身體檢查，要好好保養，照顧身體了；


最後，我決定好好投資一番，再好好存一筆錢，首要是希望能夠每年旅行至少一次，世界快末日了，該去的地方就去，該吃的就吃，該玩的就玩，該花的就花，剩下的就給妹妹讀書去～


好，寫畢，睡覺去～

围脖

我的博客已经几个世纪没更新了，

这得谢谢围脖和推特，

每天有的没的开心的伤心的

所有东东都写在这些地方了，

所以如果要更新的话，

把我写的这些全都po上去就对了~

所以咧，我决定把我在围脖里写的，

我觉得应该写进这里的，

都筛选放上来，

分享。

"当人年龄渐长，是不是眼泪也会比较多呢？现在的我只要看到什么感动的戏感动的场面甚至很感触的歌我的眼泪就会不听话～可能经历多了就比较会将心比心吧～我现在看到人家结婚也会感动到哭"

"当批评别人时，请将心比心，自己会的东西又有比别人多多少？会说流利的普通话不代表会写流利的英文文章，会说多国语言不代表会多国的文化，学问需要求，修养更需要有，请在辱骂或批评别人之前先想想自己；试问现代人有多少个懂得分别自信和自大？"

"发现最近很喜欢找回小时候的歌来听，橄榄树小草童年红蜻蜓快乐天堂，这些让我想起很多小时候的回忆，是那些现在不会再有的单纯快乐，很享受回味的滋味，hmm hmm hmm~ 假期就是沉淀心情整理思绪最好的时候~难得的轻松啊~"

"整个假期最惨的两件事：没钱和失眠！"

"终于熬过2010年了，不过2011年对我来说也没啥特别，就不过要再熬多一年，花多一年的钱罢了，没啥开心，没啥伤心，除非钱从天上掉下来咯"

"哇终于看完义海结局篇啦！！每集都在喷泪啊我～光复又哭，非凡哥死又哭，晴晴死又哭，刘醒和九姑娘重逢又哭，这套戏看得很痛苦呐～年度好戏！赞！os: 看完了心有点空虚，失落的心情，接下来的假期不知如何度过"

"以前的我不是眼淺的人，我，到底怎麽了？得憂鬱症了？有人說我長大了成熟了，好像比以前不同了；有人說我有時可以一直講個不停，有時可以靜得話都沒半句；人長大了，煩惱也就多了，自然就會變，變得所謂的成熟了；我不想長大，不想有煩惱，不想每天假裝沒事，不想帶著面具做人"

"無論怎樣，地球還是繼續旋轉，日子還是繼續要過，我還是要長大，還是會有數不完的煩惱，還是要假裝沒事，還是要帶著面具做人，還是會胡思亂想，但，人要活在當下，再憂鬱再痛苦還是要樂觀面對，反正煩惱不是用橡皮擦就能擦掉的，不如就順其自然，過得了就過，過不了，就認命算了吧"

"我很想跟劇組說：去吃大便啦！本來沒那麼火，現在我整把火給撩起來了！拜託，那可是我們的偶像誒！就算再怎樣罵都是人之常情好嗎！你媽給車撞死你也會討回公道啦！難道我就該罵你是瘋子？如果你們肯第一時間把全部責任扛下來誰會罵你們？用腦拜託! "

"有一種偉大叫做：母親！"

好啦就分享到这

明天继续~ 

看电视去~

first post of 2011

i have no idea how long has it been since the last update, december of 2011? lol is this the FIRST post of 2011?! omg sorry lar bloggy~

it might due to many reasons why i didnt update: lazy, busy, no inspiration, and the list goes on.. the conclusion is: i just not feeling in the right mood to update >.<

til now i still dunno what to update, post a new entry just to make it looks more "lively" hahaha 

so i am going to end here =P

updated

wahhh i have no idea since when i had not been to this blog??? feel so guilty for my bloggy LOL sorry sorry sorry sorry~~


anyhow i wanna leave some foot prints here so that it would not smell that rusty hahaha~


alright gonna brief a little of my recent life now~ i was super busy for the last few weeks and rushing for assignments day by day til i couldnt get enough sleep and the consequence was my pimples all came bac again!! >.< aikss. kind of frustrated. cant help it. aikss aikss.


ahh forget about my pimples thingy, continue continue: so now its already week 7 for my semester 2 and its gonna end soon!!! so darn happy *coz i can play sims3 late night with no guilty* ^o^


and recently watched two movies: unstoppable and rapunzel. they were super nice! highly recommended by expert yeen! lol. though my movie marathon is not yet ended. there are few more unchecked movies in my list: harry potter 7 part 1(this is a must watch!) and social network and tron. gonna watch them during holiday~ weeee~

~the end~

*new template*

changed a new template for my bloggy~ nice yes? hopefully you guys like it~ i have been searching for a nice one for months but all seem like too common or too artistic or too girly, in a nutshell, they do not suit my taste =P 

anyhow this is just a temporary one coz according to my friend template should change often so that people do not get bored lol. so i am going to change another new one soon ^.^

Journalism

gosh i have tons of posts that not yet finish editing due to my laziness, yea yea yea i am super duper lazy, what to do, its a disease that cannot be cured, aikss~ and now i have to susah susah recall my memory back to vomit out the posts undone T.T

since the topic is journalism so i m going to tak malu malu show my JR assignments to you=P please do not laugh although i know they were not as good as the news in Stars and Sin Chew Daily but i m proud that i did improved a lot! i know nothing at the beginning but now i can define what are points of entry, news value, sources, quotes etc etc etc~ they are all at my finger tips LOL plus all the marks given for my assignments were all out of my expectation, i am really proud of myself wei XD

however, the first assignment i've got only two marks =( it was out of my expectation too lol. thanks to my strict lecturer i started to work very hard so that i can wash away the shame of the stupid two marks >.<
and the hard works really paid off, 6 marks given for the edited one ^o^
i luv what ms sharon wrote on my paper: good improvement. hahaha that really made my day~
and this was my second assignment's topic: drug. i had spent one whole day to finish it @@ guess how many marks i got? hehe~
nine marks for this!! lol i can actually get 10 out of 10 if i did not type ONE word wrongly, aikss careless typo mistake~ >.<

ahhh finally finish! weeee~ another post is on the way~